Believe it or not, being extremely shy around the opposite sex affects many people in the world today. The National Institute of Mental Health estimates that approximately 15 million American adults age 18 and over have social anxiety. Being so shy that you experience some sort of anxiety even just thinking about approaching someone of the opposite sex is referred to as "approach anxiety", and its a subcategory of social anxiety.
I personally know a lot about this type of social anxiety, I know what it feels like, because I suffered from it for much of my life. The reasons that I suffered from this are most likely similar to the reasons that you may be suffering from it. It all comes down to issues regarding self-esteem and self-confidence.
Every person is born with an abundance of self-confidence. Thats why as young kids we do and try everything we can, and often we fail, and we don't care! Kids laugh and keep trying, and they're not embarassed. But at some point while you were growing up something happened to you that started to change that. An initiating event that started to take away your self-esteem and self-confidence. It may be something that you don't even remember. Most likely, as you grew up other events happened that reinforced this emerging lack of self-esteem and self-confidence.
Your subconscios mind does its job, it remembers everything and absorbs all of these events and the emotions that were attached to them. And now you just can't shake them off, they are deeply entrenched in your subconscious, and they are disrupting your life.
Its my opinion that when this is the case, and it usually is, that hypnosis is the quickest and most effective way to regain your self-esteem and self-confidence... and instill new positive beliefs about yourself that encourage a happier, more courageous, new you. Its still you, but with all the self-esteem and self-confidence that you were born with, that you were meant to have in your life.
Now, there are good books and programs for social anxiety out there that can help you learn better social skills. But even the most expensive programs out there that push you to meet women (or men) with a pocketful of new social skills, can't take away the anxiety that still lives in your subconscious. Until that is addressed through my hypnosis program, it will probably never go away and you will never truly be free of it.
Let me help you!